Singapore's relationship with Malaysia is often characterised by a 'two steps forward one step back' dance. Undur is Malay for 'move backwards' or 'withdraw' - which Singapore had no choice but to do in 1965. The rest, as they say, is history. This blog is about Singapore-Malaysia ever since. 'Lah' is an oft used particle which ends a sentence in the Malayanish-Singlish language. This shared particle of language gives us hope for the future.